The Love, Um- Bow Tie?

**If you’re visiting from the lovely Elana Johnson’s Blog today. Well, Howdy! Thanks for Stopping by. But, if you don’t know what the heck I’m talking about then click here to read her interview with me. Thanks Elana!**

Okay, so you all know how perplexed I am about the love triangle.

(For those of you that don’t want to click, it’s basically that I’m stressed we call it a triangle when it is, in fact, a point.)

So, I got to thinking about it, and there is a way to make a triangle of sorts. In fact, there is a way to make two triangles… a bow tie, if you will.

Here’s the kicker: You need four players instead of just three.

bowtieone The Love, Um  Bow Tie?(As always, you can click on the pictures for a bigger version)

Now, in order for the story to work, we need some attraction.

There’s the logical one, and usually where thing start out. The girls are both attracted to the Jock Hottie, and he has eyes for the Popular Girl, but the Geeky Cutie is hopessly in love with the Nerd Chick, and has been for–oh pretty much ever.

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That’s a pretty typical start to a young adult story, but then it gets all muddled, and that’s where the fun starts. Jocks start falling for nerds, popular girls see geeks in a whole new light, and that drives the nerdy chick to realize how jealous it makes her–which makes the geek fall for the popular girl.

And we, of course, get the Bow Tie Of Love:

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What I love about YA stories is, even looking at this–I have no idea how things are going to end, and that makes me happy. That’s the thing about high school–you never know what hormones are going to make you do or say, and we as writers have to remember that when we’re in our characters heads!

All I really know is, I love a man in a  bow tie…

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40 Responses to “The Love, Um- Bow Tie?”

Tiffany Neal March 30th, 2010 at 8:27 am

Hehee. You are hysterical. I love your diagrams. Seriously. That’s all. :)
.-= Tiffany Neal´s last blog ..Build Your Own Book Boyfriend =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@Tiffany Neal, Hooray! I’m glad you like them! It was SO hard to draw a diagonal line with my mouse…

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The Alliterative Allomorph March 30th, 2010 at 9:26 am

hey, great interview with Elana! Please please please can you see what’s going on with your feed?
.-= The Alliterative Allomorph´s last blog ..Do Do Do, Don’t Wait =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@The Alliterative Allomorph, Okay, are you having trouble seeing it in your reader or what? Here, I’ll email you :)

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HWPetty March 30th, 2010 at 9:47 am

#teamYogaBoi

FOREVER. ;)
.-= HWPetty´s last blog ..All. Business. (aka: #YAFrenzy) =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@HWPetty, I know how it ends now. :)

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HWPetty Reply:

@Jamie, OH EVIL WOMAN!!

You are such a tease.

(must…know…)
.-= HWPetty´s last blog ..All. Business. (aka: #YAFrenzy) =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@HWPetty, At least I think I know how it ends… I wrote like 12k yesterday :)

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HWPetty Reply:

@Jamie, If you wrote like this all the time, you’d be the most prolific writer in history. ;)

And I’m SOOOOO jealous. I’m still thinking through my ending. My muse told me that I’d think of it eventually.
.-= HWPetty´s last blog ..All. Business. (aka: #YAFrenzy) =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@HWPetty, The thing is, it wasn’t that hard. I just had to click off the wireless button on my computer :)

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HWPetty Reply:

@Jamie, AHAHAHA!!

#addiction

Not that I’d know anything about that.

(just the thought kind of gives me the shakes)
.-= HWPetty´s last blog ..All. Business. (aka: #YAFrenzy) =-.

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Chantal Kirkland March 30th, 2010 at 9:54 am

I think I just laughed so hard that milk blew-out my nose. Gross. Not your blog-my laughing that hard. I love that you made sure there was symmetry in our YA-love geometry. Thank you for all your diligent work in that arena…
.-= Chantal Kirkland´s last blog ..Dissecting a Happy-Ending-Aphobe =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@Chantal Kirkland, haha I can’t STAND uneven things :)

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Talli March 30th, 2010 at 10:02 am

Hi Jamie!

Thanks for dropping by my blog! Great interview over at Elana’s site.
.-= Talli´s last blog ..Ten For Tuesday: My Favourite Books =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@Talli, Any time! Thanks!

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Heather March 30th, 2010 at 10:20 am

That’s awesome! I love your illustrations. They always crack me up! Great point too…
.-= Heather´s last blog ..Review of Still Sucks To Be Me =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@Heather, hehe I believe the whole point is that it’s not a point this time :)

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Matthew March 30th, 2010 at 10:27 am

Hi Jamie, thanks for the follow. I’ve stopped by to return the favor.

What a cute and funny post you have today. I love the imagery. Of course my YA novel works nothing like that. I have a male shy/nerdy MC by god!

Actually with a little room for license your template could fit even my story. Obviously you didn’t mean to be completely literal, but that still is kind of neat.
.-= Matthew´s last blog ..Dear Author =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@Matthew, haha exactly, the Bow Tie of love adapts to all SORTS o things :)

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Jennie Englund March 30th, 2010 at 11:02 am

Hee hee hee!

Witty AND scientific!

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Jamie Reply:

@Jennie Englund, And that’s the mark of true genius, don’t you think. :)

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Sara B. Larson March 30th, 2010 at 11:34 am

Hi Jamie, I love the bow-tie of love. That’s hysterical. That was also a great interview on Elana’s blog. I hope great things are in store for you! :-)

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Jamie Reply:

@Sara B. Larson, Aw, thanks! Elana’s kind of a rock star :)

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B. Miller March 30th, 2010 at 12:30 pm

Coming to you from Elana’s blog and I’m looking forward to reading your entries in the future! I followed you on Google and Twitter. Oh, and thanks BTW… NOW I AM IN LOVE WITH WORDLE. ;)
.-= B. Miller´s last blog ..Comments are Important! =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@B. Miller, Wordle makes me a better writer. I always stick my book in there, and I also like to put in chapters that aren’t working, sometimes a word will stick out that I didn’t even NOTICE!

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Jen March 30th, 2010 at 2:13 pm

Thank you so much for visiting my blog! I loved your interview on Elana’s blog! She’s fantastic and I love meeting new blog peeps!
.-= Jen´s last blog ..bad habits =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@Jen, I TOTALLY agree. She’s the bees knees. I wouldn’t be where I am today without her!

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Stephanie Faris March 30th, 2010 at 3:09 pm

Yep, that pretty much sums it up! I think I go against that in my books, though. In my current one, the main character is best friends with the popular girl and the nerdy guy is actually going after the popular girl when she wanted him to go after her. So it’s kind of a reverse of that bowtie.
.-= Stephanie Faris´s last blog ..New Study Depresses Everyone =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@Stephanie Faris, I love that there’s a bazillion different ways to make the bow tie awesome :)

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Carolyn V March 30th, 2010 at 7:47 pm

Hey Jamie. I love the bow tie! =)

btw, I’m leaving you an award at my blog tomorrow. =)

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Jamie Reply:

@Carolyn V, oh squee! I love awards!

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@jmartinlibrary March 30th, 2010 at 10:02 pm

Bowties? How do you feel about about Ascots? As in ‘I just got my Ascot in a love triangle’?
.-= @jmartinlibrary´s last blog ..DIVINE MISFORTUNE by A. Lee Martinez =-.

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Jamie Reply:

@@jmartinlibrary, haha I don’t think I can draw an ascot with my mouse… so yeah–there’s that :)

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Jackee March 30th, 2010 at 11:44 pm

I’m convinced, it’s definitely a bow tie. LOL!

Thanks for stopping by my blog so that I could find yours!

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beth March 31st, 2010 at 9:01 am

*snort* Bow tie of love. I love it!!! :) That is so cool.

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Jason March 31st, 2010 at 10:32 am

You’re stupid. And funny.
.-= Jason´s last blog ..One DAMN Sentence =-.

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Ally March 31st, 2010 at 12:29 pm

Love the bow tie diagram.

Made me hungry for my favorite pasta… I’ll never look at bow ties the same again. =)

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Jess Jordan March 31st, 2010 at 3:41 pm

The Bowtie of Love! You should totally patent that. (Or copyright it, or trademark it, or whatever the legal term is that I can’t think of. Some lawyer I am …)

Maybe it’ll make bowties famous again. You could be credited with saving them from extinction. I see good things coming your way …

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shelli wells March 31st, 2010 at 7:30 pm

i saw a guy in a purple bowtie today – he looked dapper.

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Lisa Green April 1st, 2010 at 10:54 am

You always crack me up! I love a man in a bow tie too! Where does the vampire fit in this triangle? I guess it depends if he’s a geek or not.
Anyhow, I left you a surprise on my blog so stop by if you get a chance.

Paranormalpointview.blogspot.com
.-= Lisa Green´s last blog ..I’m an Award Winning Author!! =-.

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